There might be an obvious winner

Viberator

It’s a perfect match for people who want to give their partner some control—maybe even from down the hall—for your best sex yet. While we have you, don’t forget to read up on how to clean sex toys so you don’t end up booking it to the doctor’s office because of STI transmission, yeast infections, UTIs, and bacterial vaginosis. Lelo’s Siri 2 is a fine toy, but it’s a bit expensive compared with the Satisfyer Purple Pleasure viberator, which is more streamlined and less gimmicky. We also tested Lelo’s classic hard-plastic Nea 2, which is plenty powerful for its tiny size but does not compare to the We-Vibe Tango and its ultra-intense vibrations. The toy has an IPX7 waterproof rating (meaning it can withstand being submerged in 3 feet of water for up to 30 minutes) and is made from molded silicone and plastic, so it’s relatively easy to clean.

This handheld Strawberry vibrator appears to be more of a fascinating concept than a functional sex toy. These fun and adorable sex toys look like the flirty Emojis you use on your iPhone. Before the era of advanced technology and sex toys, legend has it that the pharaoh created her own makeshift vibrator by filling a gourd with angry bees and letting them do their thing. But thanks to a phenomenal and bizarre Super Deluxe video, the world can now get a crash course in vibrator history. As an addition to penetrative sex, however, it’s one of the better ways I’ve found to add new sensations without requiring much extra work or attention. Or at least, as much as you can forget about a powerful motor vibrating directly on your genitals.

To figure out which one to buy, take a moment to consider what kind of pleasure you enjoy, as well as what kind of play you’d be interested in exploring. From there, peruse the different types of vibrators to determine which toy genre best fits your wants and needs. There might be an obvious winner, or a few toys you’re tempted to try. And it’s really no problem if you find yourself in the latter category—after all, you can always buy more than one. This Kandi Kisses lipstick-shaped vibrator looks just like your average tube of lipstick but is actually a secret toy with three adjustable settings. So sneaky you can throw it in your purse, just don’t confuse it with your actual makeup.

We-Vibe’s Nova 2 is a newcomer that’s worth the hype, according to Finn. “The only downside would be if you don’t like that super-concentrated strong vibration, this toy might be a bit too intense,” Finn warned. The Tango is for someone who wants the ease of a small vibrator with the intensity of a larger one. For sex toy aficionados, this toy’s popularity comes as no surprise.

“The We-Vibe Wand 2 is perfect for those who love intense, deep , rumbly vibes that diffuse across a wide surface area for a deeper, more full-bodied sensation,” she tells SELF. If a two-in-one doesn’t impress you, then certainly the three-in-one Vibrato Wand will. While this Playboy Pleasure product may look like a standard wand vibrator, it can also be used as a vibrating dildo or a G-spot massager. The two ends are powered by separate motors, and the handle also twirls to create that come-hither motion that’s so well-suited for G-spot stimulation. Some handles are ABS plastic, which is a hard, nonporous material that’s also safe to use against the skin and also weighs less than other materials (a nice perk), Dr. Litner says. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the market for your first vibe or your 10th—with so many shapes and sizes out there, finding the right one can be tricky (not to mention time consuming).